Monyetta Shaw-Carter Reveals Split From Ne-Yo Was Over Threesomes

Ne-Yo’s ex-fiancée Monyetta Shaw-Carter is getting candid about the pairs break-up.

The Real Housewives Of Atlanta star recently sat down for an interview and explained that she and the singer broke up a decade ago because of how often he wanted to bring other sexual partners into their bedroom.

“We cheated together, if that makes sense,” she explained on the “Haus of Aaron” podcast holding up three fingers to clarify her meaning. “We did things together. It’s not cheating if you’re involved with it … and then it just wasn’t enough [for him].

“I was like, ‘Well, no, I didn’t sign up to do this every day.’ It became a problem when he wanted that a lot.”

The 43-year-old noted that while she was happy to have a ménages à trois with Ne-Yo “maybe twice a year,” it ultimately became “too much.”

She explained, “I was like, ‘If you want that, then you don’t want me.’ I tried to keep it cute and spicy, but it wasn’t enough. But it is what it is.”

Ne-Yo and Monyetta were engaged from 2010 to 2013, calling it quits just two months ahead of their planned wedding.They now co-parent daughter Madilyn, 12, and son Mason, 11.

Monyetta wed partner Heath Carter in a star-studded wedding in Atlanta in 2021.

When asked whether she and her husband also engage in threesomes, the actress replied, “What do you mean? He sees me, and it feels amazing.”